Wednesday 25 April 2012

Grieving

I'm trying to come to terms with my father dying in July last year. 


I've written complaints to both the Hospital where he was admitted before he died and also to his GP practice. I have only just written to his GP practice and received the response nearly 2 weeks ago and it completely floored me.  I new this was a risk of making the complaints but i felt i had to ask questions, both for myself and for my father's memory. As a scientist and passionate intellectual I strongly believe he would have wanted his case looked at objectively and lessons learnt from it.   


I managed to read the letter which has completely wiped me out for nearly 2 weeks again tonight and didn't cry. I read it completely differently to how I read it initially. I'm still not happy with the GP practice's response so I'm going to write again and I've shared this letter as it's evolved from a rant to something more reflective and appropriate with a close GP friend.  


My beloved Inside Health has come to my aide today and neatly encapsulated why I wanted to lodge these complaints in an article by Professor Susan Bewley an Obstetrician from University College London who was discussing the Confidential Enquiry into Maternal Deaths. 


She said this-


Good doctors (and midwives) pay attention to detail and even in death the details or the stories and journeys (women) have made are very important and I think that it is only respectful to look at that in detail so that we can learn for the benefit of the next (woman).  

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